Will someone PLEASE explain men to me.
I've spent 9 months cultivating what I thought was a relationship with a fellow, only to have it go poof. All of a sudden I get "I love you as a friend" and that's it???? Phone calls have practically disappeared and conversations, when they do happen, are very short. There's been absolutely NO "let's get together" or a "I have a Christmas gift for you", let alone any mention of New Year's Eve. What the heck is this all about. I don't get it.
I guess I shouldn't bash all men, maybe just this one but honestly, are they all this clueless?
I'm done with this one, trust me. As soon as I can deal with the crowds at Best Buy, the Christmas gift that I bought for him (and was pretty darn cool, if you ask me) will be returned. I'm torn between keeping my distance, and keeping my mouth shut, and blasting him.
Before he appeared, I was perfectly happy with my life, enjoying my new home, keeping busy with work, friends, and church activities. I feel like I've been used, and teased with what MIGHT have been. And it's not a good feeling. I am preparing to lick my wounds and mourn my loss. Or maybe count my blessings - if this is an indication of how he REALLY is, I guess I'm better off knowing it now but....... it's really tough to feel that way at the moment.
I've spent 9 months cultivating what I thought was a relationship with a fellow, only to have it go poof. All of a sudden I get "I love you as a friend" and that's it???? Phone calls have practically disappeared and conversations, when they do happen, are very short. There's been absolutely NO "let's get together" or a "I have a Christmas gift for you", let alone any mention of New Year's Eve. What the heck is this all about. I don't get it.
I guess I shouldn't bash all men, maybe just this one but honestly, are they all this clueless?
I'm done with this one, trust me. As soon as I can deal with the crowds at Best Buy, the Christmas gift that I bought for him (and was pretty darn cool, if you ask me) will be returned. I'm torn between keeping my distance, and keeping my mouth shut, and blasting him.
Before he appeared, I was perfectly happy with my life, enjoying my new home, keeping busy with work, friends, and church activities. I feel like I've been used, and teased with what MIGHT have been. And it's not a good feeling. I am preparing to lick my wounds and mourn my loss. Or maybe count my blessings - if this is an indication of how he REALLY is, I guess I'm better off knowing it now but....... it's really tough to feel that way at the moment.
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